Obviously, you need action behind this. And you also need to try and feel these. Imagine you’re a successful player when you’re saying these positive affirmations. Do these everyday for the next 60 days to really change your mindset.
How To Be A Player: The Fast Track To Attracting Multiple Women
Dating is one of the hardest things in the world. You have to put yourself out there, and tolerate rejection.
You experience successes along the way, sure, but generally, dating successfully yields a lot of failure. However, being a player is a totally separate way to go about your social life.
Let’s be honest, being a player can get you into trouble if you do it with the wrong women.
However, this isn’t an article about whether or not you should be a player—that’s up to you. This is an article on how to be a player. Whether or not you want to follow through, is up to you.
Knowing how to pick up women is the first step. If you can’t confidently go into a bar, coffee shop or mall and pick up one girl, you can’t expect to juggle three or four at a time.
If you haven’t mastered cold-approach pick up yet, stop reading and sharpen those skills.
If you think you’ve mastered the art of cold-approach pick-up, read on. However, I can’t stress enough; you must be prepared for the consequences of hooking up with, or dating multiple women at a time.
Being a player means being a little closed off emotionally. In fact, the less emotional connection you have with a woman the better in this scenario. It reduces the risk of her getting the wrong idea.
The last thing you want is a woman thinking you’re in an exclusive relationship when you’re being a player.
Try to keep things casual if possible. The more of an emotional connection you create, the bigger the risk is for a dramatic situation.
Experienced players know how to avoid topics like relationships, while still keeping women interested in them. The bottom line is this: if the sex is good, she will stick around.
As a guy you may not realize it, but it’s almost impossible for girls to find a guy who knows how to please them sexually. If you can do that and avoid any talk of a relationship, you’ll have a girl who sticks around for sure. Getting her to like you on a personal level isn’t as important, because most of these arrangements are short lived.
As a player, you want to keep a woman interested but for the right reasons. You want her to look to you for fun, and not necessarily emotional investment.
If you can do this, you can have three or four women in your life and they may not even care that you’ve created this level of abundance for yourself.
How To Meet Women: The First Step In Becoming A Player
As the old saying goes, you have to walk before you can crawl, and the same rule applies to dating.
If you can’t confidently walk into any social situation and leave with at least a phone number, your dreams of becoming a player might have to take a back seat for a while.
Before you continue imagining yourself with dozens of women around you, see if you can do the following things confidently, and consistently:
Not every woman is going to be attracted to you, so it’s especially important that you learn to tolerate rejection. You should also make it a point to network, and socialize as much as possible.
This will keep your social skills sharp, so you can always be ready to pick up women.
Opportunities present themselves at every corner, so being socially ready is a must. You have to always be ready to flirt or even get laid, if you get especially lucky when you least expect it.
Becoming a player, believe it or not, is hard work, and if you want to do it, you’ll have to sacrifice some other things.
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To be a player, start out by thinking positively about yourself. For example, when you walk into a room, get into a habit of thinking about the three things you like most about yourself. From there, focus on having confident body language, like maintaining eye contact while talking to women and keeping your arms uncrossed. Above all, try to demonstrate interest in the woman that you’re talking to by complimenting her, lightly teasing her, and being interested in what she has to say. To learn how to think and dress like a player, keep reading!
Rinse and Repeat, get higher quality women
Continue to raise your sexual market value:
Always be building your pipeline of new women to add to the team
Sleep with new women from your pipeline
Add them to the team
And replace old ones. Most women have a shelf life. Some will stay on your team a few months, some even a few years. But 3 to 6 months is average. Most women will get sick of you not committing to them. So you have to be ready for them to burnout. And of course if you find a woman that you want to have a relationship, you’ll be default be out of the player game. Of course you still have the player mentality in a relationship. You don’t cheat on your woman, but I mean you look at the relationship as still part of dating. Whether you’re a literal player or you have a girlfriend, you’re still a player in the dating game in a sense. If you keep this attitude, you can keep your relationships alive and exciting.
Get the women completely addicted to you
The women on your team should be addicted to you. Now, be careful with choosing how addicted you get them to be. There will be consequences for having too many women completely addicted to you. But get all of them to be at least infatuated with you. And choose the ones to make completely obsessed with you by speaking to their soul.
The Affirmations to become a player
There are the basic rules to the dating game. And there are the 5 steps you must take to play in the game. Whether you decide to sleep with 20 girls, 50, or over 100, how long you stay in the game is up to you. It’s not always about getting a huge number. A player keeps women around and uses them to enhance his life.
You can be a player for life or decide to settle down later on. The fun you’ll have and the experiences you’ll gain will help you in other aspects in your life. Make sure to balance being a player with women and being a player in the game of life. Applying the player mentality to life will make you think about building your wealth, starting a business, and running your life like a business.
If you’re not at that point right now that’s fine. Most of you serious about your development as a man will be in a matter of time. Learn how to be a player and develop the player mindset. Have fun on your path to become a player, and create the dating life that fits your lifestyle.